Dear future husband,
There are a few things I think you should know about me.
You should know that I don’t have a lot of free time and feel the most fulfilled when my weeks are full. I’m lucky to have multiple jobs that I love and challenge me in different ways. My career will always be a high priority to me and I will always crave the ability to make a difference in someone’s life. I will regularly want to talk to you about the ideas swimming through my head and hope you share in the excitement of any little win I might have.
When I do have down time I’m probably getting my sweat on. I spend a lot of time working out and get a rush out of pushing my body. This also means that my body just about always hurts in some ways. I can’t remember the last time my legs weren’t tired or I didn’t have to regularly pop blisters between my toes. This also means I usually smell and rarely have clean hair past 8pm.
I hope you like vegetables because we’ll be eating a lot of them. Like, vegetables at every meal a lot. Your arteries will thank me one day.
Oh yeah, all of that exercising, crazy work week, long distance running really hurts my social life. So I hope you aren’t hiding out in a bar somewhere, because there is really no chance I’ll meet you there. You should also probably loose any expectation of a booming social life. Sure there are post-run beers after races, but I’d probably prefer to spend weekends with friends over a low key dinner.
My family is crazy but would do absolutely anything for us. They are the most loving, kind people I know (and I don’t just mean blood relatives). But they will also make me insane some days. The one thing that I’ve learned from my parents is complete acceptance, flaws and all. I’m sure their marriage wasn’t always easy, but they don’t try to change the other person. They live their own lives but make compromises when necessary. And so, while I might live a crazy, sweaty, exhausting life, know that there will always be plenty of room for you and I want you to share in all of these adventures.
xxoo,
Your always sore, kind of smelly, loving wife
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